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A Year in the Life of a Beard

For about as long as I’ve been able to grow a reasonable amount of facial hair, I’ve rarely gone longer than several months without letting my beard come in. For a long time, I would let it sprout then trim it back close, or I would shave clean for months and then let the beard flourish for a little while before shearing myself again.

So for the last 25 years, I’ve probably sported a beard at least as much if not more than I’ve been smooth. This particular iteration has been on the face for four or five years now. It’s been full, but kept to a reasonable half inch or so for most of that time. I find that it does wonders to mask the slowly expanding space between my chin and my Adam’s apple.

I had always wanted to see just what I was capable of growing if I really let it run wild. A few times in college I had gone without grooming for a couple months at a time before taming it again, but that was the beard of a much younger man. What could I do as a well-seasoned husband and father of two?

Without consciously intending to do so, I went a few weeks longer than I usually do between trims. In November of last year, the beard was in full foliage, even as the trees were not. By Thanksgiving I seemed manly enough.

Thanksgiving beard.
The beard representing both our Pilgrim forefathers and South Knoxville.

A week or two after the Thanksgiving holiday I lightly trimmed what had been growing, leaving me with the equivalent of three or four weeks’ growth.

That would be the last time I would trim it for 11 months.

By Christmas the beard was filling in to a fairly full state again.

the beard at Christmas 2014
Christmas seems the right time for a full beard anyway, right? Molly is looking lovely as always while I get by.

Around this time (I can’t remember exactly when) I was asked to play the part of Kit Carson in the William Saroyan play The Time of Your Life. Seemed the perfect chance: I could let the beard grow for the part, then see what happens. The play was a few months off, so I was certain that I could reach an impressive length by then. Molly wasn’t particularly excited about the beginnings of a fuller beard, but was enthusiastically on board for the acting bit, so she gracefully allowed it.

The slightly longer beard also lent itself to a more Biblical look for my role as a metal-smith during a church event.
The slightly longer beard also lent itself to a more Biblical look for my role as a metal-smith during a church event.
New Year's beard
Ringing in the New Year was definitely warmer this year.

In February we saw more snow and cold than we’ve seen in a long time in Knoxville. With temperatures dropping into and remaining in the single digits, I was glad to be more furry. The fuzzy face with the fuzzy hat kept me plenty cozy.

snow-shoveling beard
I might not have been excited to shovel snow, but the beard seemed to be.
wool cap and beard
Did I mention that I knitted myself a wool cap to go with my wooly beard?

By March and the time of the play, the beard had reached an unprecedented length. People would comment on it, but I insisted that “it was gettin’ there.”

Kit Carson beard
The character of Kit Carson was a rambling, crazy old coot…so I was typecast, I suppose.
Kit Carson beard after show.
I wish I could’ve kept that leather jacket. It fit me like a glove and had fringe for days.

Spring had rolled around by that point, and the beard had started taking on a life of its own. I had come that far with it, why not a little longer? We took it to visit Biltmore, which is a slightly more impressive structure, I will admit. Still, I was building something that would turn out grand in its own right.

Taking the beard to Biltmore.
The sideview car pic always shows off the beard line nicely, I think. The proportions work here, no?
The beard visits Biltmore.
Everyone enjoyed touring the early spring grounds at Biltmore, especially the beard.

Either the beard had taken on philosophical lengths or the visit to the early spring gardens at Biltmore prompted deeper thoughts. Whatever the case, during March I was reflective in a manner befitting a beard of that scale. You can read some of my thoughts here and here.

As nature came to life during April, with shoots and leaves appearing everywhere, the beard continued to grow as well. I’m fairly certain that it imparted enough manliness for Finn and I to build a working Pinewood Derby Car. I also took the beard along as Molly and I hosted a travel writer across East Tennessee.

beard and pinewood derby car
I’m slightly more proud of my son and the car than I am of my beard. Slightly.
beard at Whitestone
At the Whitestone Country Inn, Molly and I saw a bald eagle. It was slightly more majestic than my beard. Slightly.

The big event in May was the wedding of Molly’s sister Amy. I harbored genuine concerns that my beard might detract from the proceedings, might distract from the bride and groom. Fortunately my misgivings were unfounded, as both bride and groom remained squarely and solely in the spotlight. A few folks noticed the beard, but nary a fuss was made. Of course, that was well before it had taken on massive proportions. I mean…I was less than six months in at that point. Had they been married in September, I might have needed an excuse to forgo the event.

Beard on a boat
Things I learned about beards: when you’re on a wedding boat cruising a South Carolina lake at night, the wind will whistle through your beard. A strange sensation.
beard holding a glowstick
The beard was long and strong enough to hold a thin glowstick. I was pleased.

At around the six-month mark, the beard had taken on a life of its own. Clearly I couldn’t cut it back at that point…I had to see if I could make it to a year. I needed a new summer hat, as my typical baseball cap didn’t look quite right with the beard length, so I got a breezy straw fedora that, combined with my sunglasses, made me look distinctly like someone trying to be incognito. I enjoyed the irony.

beard and ice cream
Who is the man behind that beard? Is that a shake or a malt?
another beard on a boat
On a boat again, this time in Alabama. The wind still whistles through the bristles.

By the middle of summer the beard was attracting plenty of attention. When we went to the White Lightning Festival in Cumberland Gap, TN (a fun little excursion and well worth a day trip or two), Abraham Lincoln called me Stonewall Jackson. My reaction was conflicted: I was glad that my beard so clearly trumped Lincoln’s, but I certainly don’t want to be confused for a Confederate, even if he did have some military savvy.

beard and Lincoln
Lincoln’s got nothing on me.
Gap Trail beard
Clearly I could have made it as a pioneer across the Cumberland Gap. My beard would have carried me through.

August, and the dog days of summer, should have meant a measure of misery for me, but I stayed surprisingly cool, given my pelt. Granted, I needed to shake like a sheepdog when I came out of the pool, but it wasn’t so bad.

beard in the pool
The crystal clear waters of Chapman Pool nicely showcase the burliness, don’t you think?

I also trekked across the state of Tennessee with the beard in August, stopping first in Nashville for a couple of days to visit Belle Meade Plantation’s Homeschool Day. As I walked around the various folks in character, I briefly considered the historical re-enactor trade.

We moved on west to Memphis, where we did what became a musical tour of the city. I’ve learned that the history of rock and soul music is decidedly thin when it comes to men with magnificent beards.

Sun Studio beard
The Elvis lip just doesn’t read from beneath all that hair.

I actually started to get a little tired of the beard by mid-September. It needed constant tending, not unlike another child in the family. Indeed, it had started taking on a life of its own, garnering attention from all manner of strangers everywhere we went. The inevitable question: How did you grow it? What am I supposed to say to a question like that? “Inaction” is the most accurate response. I simply did nothing. The beard did all the real work.

seatbelt beard
When the beard gets stuck beneath the seatbelt, it’s time to reconsider the length.

Finn and I have the beard to thank for getting us through the first real over-night hiking trip. Three miles up and back is a long way without a burly beard to pull us through. As we got closer and closer to the trailhead on the second day, we encounter several day-hikers who looked askance at me. I suppose I did look mildly dangerous, maybe even slightly crazed.

beard hike
We made it up and down the mountain on the strength of my beard.

Had I not committed to being Zeus for Halloween, I would have trimmed the growing monstrosity back several weeks sooner. Nearly a year without cutting more than a few loose mustache ends, however, had left me with a face fit for a deity. A couple of cans of white spray later, and I emerged into the role quite nicely. At any rate, I was easily recognizable.

Zeus beard
Did I wield the power of lightning or the power of a burly beard? Maybe both.

My duties as Zeus having been fulfilled in fine form, I whacked the mess back the day after Halloween. In truth the trim was much easier than I had anticipated, although I nearly burned out the motor on the clippers a couple of times. How quickly a year’s worth of beard becomes a slightly gross pile of hair in the sink. I’ll spare you that picture.

beard trim before
beard trim during
beard trim after

Now all that’s left is to shape up this shaggy mane that’s been growing on the top of my head for the past few months and I’ll be back to fighting weight.

If you can, if you’re a man capable of growing a respectable beard, do it. Be hirsute. Embrace it. If you can’t, if your cheeks are patchy or your upper lip thin, then don’t. Not at all. But don’t feel bad about it. Not everyone can be as magnificent as I was for a year. Then again, I’m not sure I would want to do it again. Not that Molly would allow it anyway…

Have a question about growing beards? Ask away!

Animal Jam Halloween Fun

Hi Jammers! Kittenstar10 here! Hope you all had a happy Halloween in Animal Jam. Halloween in Jamaa is called Night of The Phantoms. Animal Jam got in the spirit of Halloween by making Jamaa Township filled with jack-o-lanterns, coffins and phantoms! They even added a new temporary game where you protect your candy from the evil phantoms. You are given a torch and it moves wherever you place your mouse. The phantoms avoid the light from the torch and your goal is to get them into a beacon of light, where they will disappear in order to move to the next level.

Halloween Clothing from Jamaa on Animal Jam
Halloween Clothing from Jamaa on Animal Jam

By playing the games, you earn gems which can be spent in any of the shops. In the clothing shop there are Halloween themed costumes. You can shop for zombie masks, eyeball headbands, skeleton tails and more.

Halloween Den Items in Jamaa on Animal Jam
Halloween Den Items in Jamaa on Animal Jam

In the den item shop, they have spooky phantom items like ghosts, a giant phantom balloon, a phantom lamp and more Halloween themed items for your den to dress it up for the holiday.

Spooky Halloween Den in Jamaa on Animal Jam
Spooky Halloween Den in Jamaa on Animal Jam

There is a new den for members that looks like a haunted house for any members wanting to throw a Halloween party. Most Halloween items require you to be a member, but there are still some things that non-members can get. Since its November you need to swoop right in to get all the Halloween merchandise before its gone! See you in Jamaa!?


Animal Jam is an online game designed for kids sponsored by National Geographic and shows fun facts if you want to know more about animals. The game requires Flash Player so you must use a computer or a special app for iPads.

Halloween Costumes

11 Years of Halloween Costumes

As you can see, some years we all four dressed up and some years Scott and Molly didn’t. Participating in our local church’s Trunk or Treat motivated us all to get into costume for the last few years.

2015 Halloween

Ares (god of war), Hera (queen of the gods), Zeus (king of the gods, god of lightning), Artemis (goddess of the hunt) = 4 of the 12 Olympians (the rest of the 12 + Hades were depicted as figures, like on a Grecian urn). Audrey drew (with art instruction) each of the figures and learned about each one and the concepts they represented. This school project took over 2 months and grew out of her interest in the Percy Jackson book series. She and daddy enhanced the accessories with LED glowing lights — which is my most favorite Halloween concept for safety reasons – makes us much more visible. She also created Finnian’s helmet using paper mache. (Originally, we were going to sew all the robes, but they ended up being store bought due to time constraints.)
2015 Halloween: Greek Gods and Goddesses
2015 Halloween: Greek Gods and Goddesses


2014 Halloween

Scott and Molly reused costumes from before the kids were born to dress up like the Big Bad Wolf and Little Red Riding Hood. The night cap and red cape were hand sewn all those years ago. Egyptian Pharaoh King Tut was a meld of store-bought and sewn at home and Eighties Girl (1980s Chic) was the most fun costume to piece together from current day items and brought back fond memories for Scott.

2014 Halloween: Big Bad Wolf and Little Red Riding Hood, King Tut and 80s Chic
2014 Halloween: Big Bad Wolf and Little Red Riding Hood, King Tut and 80s Chic

2013 Halloween

Inspired by Finnian’s school project about dinosaurs, Scott and Molly dressed up as Paleontologists. Finnian was a robot, using a computer monitor as a helmet and the guts of the computer attached to a gray sweatsuit. Audrey repeated the previous year’s costume for Trunk or Treat and dressed as her favorite animal – a kitty cat! For Halloween night, she dressed as a zombie (not pictured).

2013 Halloween - Palentolgoists, Robot and Kitty Cat
2013 Halloween – Paleontologists, Robot and Kitty Cat

2012 Halloween

Molly sewed wings into a black robe Finnian had used years before as the Emperor and added ears to make him a bat. He was very clear that he was not Batman, but just a bat. After hours of sewing fluffy fabric, Audrey got to dress as her favorite animal, a cat. We covered a headband in matching fabric to create the ears. Lumberjack costumes were easy, comfortable and warm on the chilly Halloween night.

2012 Halloween - A bat and a cat and two lumberjacks
2012 Halloween – A bat and a cat and two lumberjacks

2011 Halloween

It’s the Muppets! This year was the first year we participated in the local church’s trunk or treat event. We went all out on our costumes as Kermit and Miss Piggy. Audrey was Disney’s Rapunzel, which had just been released as an animated movie earlier that year. Finnian’s costume, as is usually the case, was chosen according to the weapon he was most drawn to when shopping. Native American Indian had the best tomahawk.

2011 Halloween - Kermit and Miss Piggy, Rapunzel and a Native American Warrior
2011 Halloween – Kermit and Miss Piggy, Rapunzel and a Native American Warrior

2010 Halloween

Cruella De Vil, from 101 Dalmatians, almost perfect…except the white hairspray we bought only showed up under a black light….so it didn’t work out at all. We found out too late to fix it. Disney’s Snow White and Dr. Doofenshshmirtz (Phineas and Ferb) were unmistakable. Finnian dressed up as the Emperor from Star Wars and of all our costumes, this was mom’s least favorite simply because he disappeared into the night. There weren’t enough glow sticks to make him visible while walking through the neighborhood.

2010 Halloween - Snow White, The Emperor from Star Wars, Cruella De Vil and Dr. Doofenshmirtz from Phineas and Ferb
2010 Halloween – Snow White, The Emperor from Star Wars, Cruella De Vil and Dr. Doofenshmirtz from Phineas and Ferb

2009 Halloween

Poor daddy had the flu this year so mom braved the rainy Halloween night for a brief walk around the block to trick or treat.  Pirates and Princesses pretty much sums up our interests for the entire year.

2009 Halloween - The Princesses and The Pirate (this year Scott was sick and didn't get to go trick or treating with us.)
2009 Halloween – The Princesses and The Pirate (this year Scott was sick and didn’t get to go trick or treating with us.)

2008 Halloween

Finnian was living his life as a Cowboy and thankfully Audrey played along at Halloween. These costumes were easy to wear and pretty much came from our dress up clothes stash.

2008 Halloween - Cowboy and Cowgirl - part of a year-long phase Finnian went through.
2008 Halloween – Cowboy and Cowgirl – part of a year-long phase Finnian went through.

2007 Halloween

Molly’s aunt brought back these wonderful costumes from one of her visits to Japan. These costumes were the perfect mix of “special” dress up and comfortable clothing.

2007 Halloween - Audrey and Finnian are wearing outfits brought back from Japan by Molly's aunt.
2007 Halloween – Audrey and Finnian are wearing outfits brought back from Japan by Molly’s aunt.

2006 Halloween

Goldilocks and the Three Bears brought no complaints about itchy costumes from Audrey and sweet little Finnian just smiled in his baby bear costume.

2006 Halloween - Goldilocks and the 3 Bears
2006 Halloween – Goldilocks and the Three Bears

2005 Halloween

Saved all these years, this little German outfit from Molly’s childhood was Audrey’s costume. We sewed matching outfits to go along with the family theme of Bavarian Germany.

2005 Halloween - Bavarian Costumes - Audrey is wearing Molly's actual outfit from when she lived in Germany as a baby.
2005 Halloween – Bavarian Costumes – Audrey is wearing Molly’s actual outfit from when she lived in Germany as a baby.

2004 Halloween

Audrey’s first Halloween! Cute cuddly little duckling.

2004 Halloween - My Little Duck
2004 Halloween – My Little Duck

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